Contrary to popular belief, it is not impossible to give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm. Here a few tips and tricks to help you give her an orgasm that she’ll never forget.
Don’t skimp on the Foreplay!
Turning a woman on isn’t like just flipping a switch. It takes time and patience, and a little bit of work on your part.
Start slowly, but start your foreplay before you even begin to take each other’s clothes off.
Caress her through her clothes, kiss her face and neck, and spend some time learning her body.
You can always tell by the way she moves what she wants more of and those are the places that you want to focus.
By the time you get her clothes off, she’ll be begging you to touch her.
Use your tongue, but don’t talk.
Don’t be intimidated by the thought of going down on her. Clitoral stimulation is essential for a mind blowing orgasm. Don’t just focus strictly on her clitoris though; spend some time exploring her folds with your tongue. A good trick is to use your tongue to spell out the alphabet.
Use your hands too, but don’t just focus on her vaginal area. Grab her butt cheeks with both hands and pull her closer to your face, run your fingers up and down her thighs, or reach up and tease her breasts. Just don’t let your hands be idle.
The G-spot does exist
The combination of a g-spot and clitoral orgasm is one of the most powerful erotic experiences that a woman can have.
Unfortunately, teaching men to find the G-spot is like asking them to find the Holy Grail.
Use your index or middle finger and press into up to about your second knuckle. Then, with your palm facing up, make a ‘come here’ motion with your finger.
You should feel a spot along the vaginal wall that is rougher than the rest. Viola, you’ve discovered the g-spot. Pay attention to the way she moves her body to determine how soft or hard she wants you to press.
If you find something that works, keep doing it. Don’t quit, or change what you’re doing.
Switching between movements is a great way to make her lose the orgasm that you’ve been working on this entire time. Combine your tongue and hand movements to give her two orgasms at once and totally blow her mind. It may take a little practice but in the end, it will be totally worth it.
Girls: Show and TELL!
A little info for the girls. You need to remember that these guys aren’t mind readers.
Most will appreciate a little feedback as to what you like and what you don’t. Tell him what you want, guide his hands to where they can do the most good, and talk to him.
“Oh god yes” is better than nothing, but if he knows what you like, you’ve got a much better chance of getting off.
Don’t complain that he’s not doing anything for you if you won’t lift a finger to help.